How I Started Taking Better Care of Myself

Leah Connelly
3 min readApr 24, 2024

I haven’t always been the best at self-care. Growing up, I was led to believe by the people around me that my needs should always come last, and that being a good person meant always putting others first.

This caused issues with my mental, physical, and emotional health. It caused problems in my relationships. Especially my marriage.

After I got divorced, I knew things had to change.

Shaming didn’t work, as it only made me resent myself and people who’d shamed me in the past. Talking of the dangers caused…

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Leah Connelly

Writer, piano teacher, and nature lover. Loves to travel, garden, crochet, and hug trees. Has a fuzzy, noisy Airedale terrier rescue.